How To Take Revenge On The Narcissist?

The best revenge takes time, but it’s the only thing that is worth it.

Zita Fontaine

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Now you see clearly. The veil has lifted and you know what you are up against with. You see the signs and you have more proof than you have ever wanted. You got tangled in the web of a narcissist and it hurts.

You have been wronged. You are hurting. You are crippled. You lost your sense of self and there is a myriad of emotions inside you that is impossible to process. You want to get even. You want them to hurt. You want them to feel the pain that they cause you. You want them to suffer just as much as you are suffering.

You want revenge.

You dream about it. You plan it. You spend a copious amount of time imagining how they would feel when you hurt them. You keep picturing their pain.

You want revenge because you feel that if you can make them pay for what they have done to you it will be easier to move on, to get closure and live your life. You want to show them that you are over them so much that you are ready to hurt them. You want to show that you are strong enough and they were wrong to underestimate you.

You plan it all. And then you hesitate. Because everything you can think of feels too low. It feels petty even if your plan…

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Zita Fontaine
Zita Fontaine

Written by Zita Fontaine

Writer. Dreamer. Hopeless romantic. Newsletter: zita.substack.com Email me: zitafontaine (at) gmail

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