It’s a very good question, and when I was coming out of my abusive relationship, I wanted to understand the reasons — but mostly, whatever I found about it wasn’t a good enough explanation. Because they are empty, because they are users, because they are entitled, because in some cases they are pure evil.

I never understood it. I wanted to understand, so badly it hurt.

I’ll try to write about it and I will tag you — it’s an interesting aspect.

But I’m warning you: with a normal, decent mindset you are not supposed to fully understand a distorted mind. At least that’s the conclusion I came to.

Thank you for reading!