Why You Need to Learn to Be Selfish
And let go forever of the thought of people-pleasing
6 min readApr 26, 2022
I have a friend whom I always envied. It’s not the jealousy kind of feeling I had, I rather just wanted what she had — without wanting to take it away from her. It was never about her job, her finances, her relationships — it was about the main attitude she has that has been influencing every single thing.